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“Mary Kay: more than a mere hustle!”

Read my beautiful, glossed lips:  “Mary Kay is not my new hustle.”

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I am a former Mary Kay Consultant who continues to support the company mission and is an active consumer of the Mary Kay product line. Prior to transitioning into an in-active status, I composed and developed this blog as a marketing support for my sales efforts. Included was my scanned business card and a template for conference calls with  National Sales Director Extraordinaire: Gloria Mayfield Banks.

Well, life happened and my existence has taken a new direction. Nonetheless, I’ve updated this “Blog-a-Gloss” because it is such an accurate (I think) representation of my journey to discovering the beauty of a jaw bone and the shadowing of an eye.

ENJOY!

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I can’t think of any other entity on planet earth that suffers more myth and misunderstanding than Mary Kay. It’s as though she’s become the “Sushi” of the cosmetics industry. What do I mean by that?

Well, have you ever heard “Sushi Haters” utter their disgust for the delicacy with gasps and then attempt to educate the world with their limited scope and back-alley knowledge?

Their base-line  offering is:

  1. “It’s raw fish.”
  2. “It will give you worms and parasites.”
  3. “It’s a weapon of terrorism designed to kill Generation X by way of wasabi and California Rolls.”

After I’ve listened to their rants I finally ask, “Have you ever tried it yourself?” To which they sheepishly reply:

“Umm…. no.”

Then HOW DO YOU KNOW?  Without fail, the stock response eludes to what THEY say or it’s what their co-workers told them, what the lady down the street on dialysis said, or quite frankly, it’s just what they’ve heard.

Mary Kay is soooo like Sushi!

Until you’ve actually tried the product yourself, have been properly introduced to the business opportunity with accurate facts, or perused the company’s website (www.marykay.com), you don’t know nuttin’ ’bout my Mary Kay.

The first order of business I’d like to share is one of the most overwhelming and compelling facts the vast majority of the world doesn’t even know.

  • “In the first six months of 2011, more than 200,000 recruits signed up to sell Mary Kay products. There are now 2.5 million independent sales consultants selling $2.5 billion worth of mascara, moisturizer and other beauty products globally.”  (From ABC “Nightline”)

~ Click the link below to read the full article ~

http://abcnews.go.com/Business/cosmetics-recession-proof-famous-female-entrepreneurs-built-branded/story?id=14580669#.T2_64IGwRBM

Just to offer a mild perspective on the latter, this basically means that last year, real estate continued to suffer economic woes, gas prices soared, unemployment statistics rose, and major businesses and corporations threw in the towel. The United States is in a declared recession, yet: $2.5 billion in cosmetics was sold by Mary Kay? Holy Amber Suede lipstick Batman. That’s what I call the fortitude of a determined gender.

Mary Kay has received awards and honors from leading women’s magazines including Essence “Reader’s Choice Beauty Awards” and O, “The O Magazine” Hall of Fame and the prestigious “Customer Loyalty Engagement 2011” winner.

Click the link below to see a full list of honors.

http://www.marykay.com/whatsnew/awardsandhonors/default.aspx

So, what does Penny Dickerson do again? “I write.”  And what does Penny Dickerson wear when she writes & interviews & teaches: Make-up.

 I indulge with full force and always have: foundation, loose powder, eyeliner, eyeshadow, mascara, lipstick, lip gloss, sunscreen in my fine Florida weather, and well, you get the picture: cosmetics. My look is not the everyday same, nor are  applications and color schemes. However, I somehow got hooked on a (ahem..) “pure plum” lipstick shade early in life and can’t seem to shake the need to have a brilliant hue upon my lips (I am seeking help).

If your relationship with make-up remotely mimics mine, then you probably bought your first collection of “pretty paint” at a drug store called “Woolworths.” The first image of me is in 1986 at Temple University (Philadelphia, PA). This was the era of every woman wanting to look like Anita Baker and quite frankly, I can’t explain that hideous sweater. The constant for me was “dressing my eyes” which by this time I had accepted as an aesthetic asset versus the years of self-conscious embarrassment for having eyes as  big as saucers. The evolution of my “look” traveled the course of trends to a degree, and while  there was clearly a time when I wouldn’t be caught dead without full-face, my mindset about the cosmetic indulgence has settled: I like wearing make-up. I enjoy buying it. I enjoy applying it. I enjoy the journey of finding the right “right” and I am rather unapologetic about all of the aforementioned. No qualms from me about women who choose to NOT wear make-up (as some think they don’t need it).

I don’t wear make-up because I need it, I wear make-up because I look so God awful fabulous in it.

Don’t get it twisted.

I am a firm advocate for “au naturelle” and graciously leave the the latter to the texture of my hair. One of the things many women fail to understand about make-up is that YOU control your look. It’s not a product you “put on” it’s a cosmetic you “apply.”  The match of foundation shade is crucial as is the stroke of the brush. Brush? What brush?

if you aren’t applying make-up with the appropriate tools, then your desired outcome will indeed look like you “put on” make-up instead of applying it. Truth be told, I believe most women who claim to abstain do so because they’ve never mastered the process. Time is irrelevant. My entire application takes five minutes: Foundation – Powder – Eyes – Blush – Lips.  One minute, one minute, one minute, one minute, one minute.

I’ve since traveled a 30-decade route from the coffee shades of  Posner to Flori Roberts and then Fashion Fair. This intriguing, glass-jar-packaged, facial divine tragically left stains on the collars of all of my clothes yet, I wore it like it was the best thing to happen to a black girl’s face. I eventually transitioned to department stores and Lancome.

Circa 2012. I finally got it:

Make-up doesn’t make you beautiful, it can only enhance what’s already there, and THAT (my dear) is the skin God gave you without the Noxema he never told you to use. (We ALL used Noxema, so don’t say you didn’t).  Remember Noxema and Ambi Skin Tone Cream? That was the night time duo in my house of three girls, the youngest of which was me.

We washed our faces with “the chemical-laden soaking-soap” followed by Noxema that we sometimes kept on overnight til it created a hardened mask like Japanese Kabuki make-up.

We then took cotton balls and lightly dabbed alcohol  (that was our astringent), and followed it with a a light layer of vaseline to keep our faces as soft as a baby’s bottom. Wow ~ it’s a wonder I don’t look like Yoda from Star Wars.

Through trial and error, I learned that my face is only allocated one layer of skin per lifetime. Can the church say “SKIN CARE?”  One of the most beneficial aspects of the Mary Kay business is the unique opportunity to teach women to take care of their skin through the use of environmentally conscious skin care products like the “Time Wise Miracle Set.”  This very simple regiment helps you to:

cleanse, exfoliate, freshen, energize, hydrate, smooth, firm, soften, protect, rebuild and reduce fine lines and wrinkles.

Current is the “Botanical Effects” skin care line which may appeal more to a younger demographic. Regardless, whether it’s “Time Wise or Botanicals,” both are excellent skin care products and skin care is key.

While I am not a nature fanatic, I enjoy my Florida sun and because I have learned to combat nature’s elements, my skin and youth are in respectable agreement. This final photo image of me was taken Saturday, March 25, 2012 at the Jacksonville Fine Arts Festival. OF COURSE I don’t wear glamour make-up in the sun. Again, the power of the application is starting with a canvas of clean skin, correctly gauging appropriate layers, and ya know…some days moisturizer and lip gloss will do. However, church and work? GLAMOUR. At least for me!

~ Moving Along ~

In 1963, Mary Kay Ash founded the now famous Dallas-based company, and  in 1963 I was also born. Next year, we will both celebrate 50 years of existence, and I will walk into that celebration thankful for recognizing a single revelation:  I can make extra money on a career track by promoting a product that I have already been wearing  since I was 16 years-old. How cool is THAT? 

Why a Mary Kay business decision was sensible and sound to me:

  1.  I already use the consumable product and I LIKE Mary Kay’s line.
  2. I talk to and meet people “all day-everyday” ANYWAY.
  3. A company exists that has one of the most savvy and contemporary marketing models to help entrepreHERS and entrepreHIMS succeed.
  4. You don’t need to qualify for a small business loan: Mary Kay is a flat   $100 investment plus tax).
  5. There are no territories, so you can sell and/or share globally.
  6. Need a marketing plan? See: www.marykay.com/pennydickerson.
  7. A solid and simple principle prevails: Faith first, Family second, Career third.
  8. Free training (FREE training). Free training. FREE training & Mentoring.
  9. Networking opportunities. EVERYONE needs to know more people than those at your church or the job you secretly hate.) Network=Networth.
  10. The Mary Kay Foundation champions two causes that have directly affected my life: cancer and domestic violence.
  11. Mary Kay gives away more prizes, trips, diamonds, accessories, awards, recognition and oh yeah: CARS (no car payment/no insurance payment). Perhaps you don’t need any extra money because you have loads in the bank AND also boast a financial portfolio that would make even Donald Trump marvel. If the latter is true, please call me because I need to be your new best friend. Extra and Money are two beautiful combines. EXTRA…MONEY. It just sounds right. There is no requirement that you pursue Mary Kay as a career transition. The option to simply order wholesale at 50% and sell retail at 100% of the cost is completely yours.

So, did I dispel any myths and conjure curiosity? More than anything, my intent is to squash the southern stigma that Mary Kay is a “Stepford Wife” cult of lipstick hustling women who pursue it as a last means of occupational hope. Most proud am I to be under the director and mentorship of Harvard graduate Gloria Mayfield Banks (Magic Unit B351).

Click link to Gloria’s website:  www.nsdgloria.com

While she absolutely enjoyed a prosperous career prior to joining Mary Kay, the decision to make it her life and career.   Gloria is a Mary Kay multimillionaire with more than 7 million Dollars in earning. Her highest combined monthly income for one month was over $96,000.

She is #1 in the Emerald Division out of 2 million in Mary Kay and #5 worldwide. Her statistics are amazing, but more so is her charisma and presence. If you’re connected to me, you will definitely have an opportunity to receive an invitation to conference call and/or meet Gloria. What you read is definitely what you will both see and get. Learn more via her website at www.nsdgloria.com.

I would list all of the extravagant cars, trips, and diamonds she’s won, but let it suffice to say, she’s so dynamic and powerful, Gloria metaphorically sits on the earth’s axle and enjoys the global spin. In April, she’ll be in Brazil. After that, Budapest. By Tuesday night, I plan to have her on the other end of my phone because she WREAKS guidance, encouragement, energy, and a positive message that says:

“Yes. You too can be the best.”

The opportunity to enrich the life of another human being and complement your positive energy and drive with their eagerness and determination is neither a hustle or a business opportunity (per se). I deem it a unique and fulfilling way to fortify my daily existence and at the same time be empowered by women whose efforts speak success.

If you received this link, it is because you have been identified as a woman whose tenacity and drive will help you to earn extra income and become a part of a positive network of incredible women.

Mary Kay representatives look forward to the opportunity to offer you:

  1. A personal facial.
  2. A complete makeover.
  3. An invitation to receive a free gift for serving as “Hostess” of your very own party.

Or, maybe you’re already on the cusp of making that “extra money” decision and are ready to invest $100 to join Mary Kay. 

Call an available Mary Kay representative at your earliest convenience and book a date to begin a new you!

Penny Dickerson 2012 *  All Rights Reserved

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Penny Pranks, Hospitals, and CNN

This could very likely be my shortest blog post ever. I really missed my keystroke. Actually, it’s safe to say I am addiction struggling from “key-stroke blog withdrawal.” There’s nothing like emerging from an “ordeal” and coining a phrase. “Key-Stroke Blog Withdrawal.” Gonna have to write Webster’s Unabridged 2012 on that one.

Today is August 29th, but I promise the past 29 days seem like a blur. Somehow, I had surgery on August 1, 2011 and I’ve been in Emergency Room (slash) Special Procedure hell since. Being in the hospital sucks. Being in the hospital for more than 20 days is crazy, and being in the hospital on your birthday is just plain criminal.

Thank you (in retrospect) to Nurse Ginger who searched high and low to gift me with an orange popsicle. It was divine, sans candles and that hokey “Happy Birthday” song. I don’t mean to sound ungrateful because after all, somewhere in Africa, there are people without access to adequate healthcare or popsicles.    Wait…is that Africa or South Jersey?

Because my journalist/writer/blogger brand is positive, I must take the high road and recount all the very special (hilarious) things that made it all blog-worthy. At the top of the list is my high school friend Terri Lee Maxey who came to visit me last week after hours. I had just been given pain meds but was restless and hungry (so I thought). We talked the nurse into letting us leave the floor so I could go to the “Rainbow Room” which is The Red Lobster of Baptist Hospital. The nurse agreed, but insisted I go in a wheel chair because I was er, um, “stoned.” Continue Reading »

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Where Dreams Come True (DDA 2013)

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Florida teens participate in Disney Dreamers Academy hosted by Steve Harvey, Essence Magazine

BY PENNY DICKERSON
SPECIAL TO THE FLORIDA COURIER

High school students converged upon the state last week for the sixth annual Disney Dreamers Academy sponsored by Walt Disney World Resorts with Steve Harvey and Essence Magazine.

Congratulations Disney Dreamers Academy Class of 2013

The 100 students arrived from as far as California and Vermont with a cluster of Midwestern states represented. Bodacious dreams were packed along with stories as warm as the sunshine during a four-day, three-night weekend held March 6-10.Male students at opening parade (Photo Credit Penny Dickerson)

Each student was challenged to boldly reach for the stars like the foremost signature dreamer: Walt Disney. Among them were 11 Florida “Dreamers” selected from 5,000 submissions.Winning essays articulated everything from cancer adversity to presidential award achievements, and collectively they are the next generation of physicians, journalists, James Beard award culinary chefs, Academy Award-winning actors and Disney Imagineers.

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The Kinsey Collection: African-American family debuts cultural exhibit at Disney (DDA 2013)

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A Whole New World: The Kinsey Collection

If the art of sharing were worth its weight in gold, the amassed cultural treasures of Bernard and Shirley Kinsey would easily personify Ft. Knox. The philanthropist couple have gathered 400 ‘authentic and rare art, artifacts, books, documents and manuscripts that tell the often untold story of African American achievement and contributions.’ The culminating result is an impressive touring exhibit spanning more than 400 years of history aptly titled, “The Kinsey Collection: Shared Treasures of Bernard and Shirley Kinsey.”

More than 3 million people in seven U.S. cities including the Smithsonian Institute in Washington, D.C. have been exposed and culturally enriched. And now, a global audience can experience ‘the intersect of art and history’ at Walt Disney World in Orlando, Florida.

Earlier this month, The Kinsey Collection opened to the public at the American Heritage Gallery of the American Adventure Pavilion at EPCOT Center where it will remain until 2016.  The private unveiling took place during the 6th Annual Disney Dreamers Academyweekend hosted by Steve Harvey with Essence magazine. The competitive program selects 100 students from across the country to indulge in four days of mentoring workshops facilitated by celebrities like gospel sensation Yolanda Adams, American Idol runner-up Kimberley Locke, Actor Doc Shaw from Tyler Perry’s “House of Payne,” CNN education contributor Dr. Steve Perry, and more.

Bernard Kinsey─patriarch of the namesake collection─also honored the 2013 cohort with a historical lecture, “The Myth of Absence” which aligns with the Kinsey’s ultimate goal: education.

A Disney partnership effectively broadens the collection’s outreach, but a unique agreement with the Florida Department of Education  fills a void Kinsey believes is omitted by most African American textbooks. The Kinsey’s self-published coffee-table book bears the collection’s title and has been approved to teach K-12 history in Florida schools.

The publication works in concert with the collection as a visual and kinesthetic educational component. Readers embark upon a 198 page, picturesque journey in print that begins in 1632 and travels to the present. The art of Stephen Duncanson and Romare Bearden are complemented by 17th century documents from historical abolitionist Frederick Douglass and Dr. Martin Luther King. Jr., whose legacy encouraged everyone to ignite a dream.

“This exhibit presents truth, but is not an exercise in victimhood,” said Bernard Kinsey to a captive room at EPCOT World Showplace. “We have the courage to uplift and do justice to an integral part of American history that dispels the myth that our history is absent from the whole.”

Cross-referencing visual slides from the collection, Kinsey’s unwavering passion for history reverberated as he described the 1832 slavery ‘Bill of Sale’ that inspired the collection. From his confident podium stance to his matter-of-fact wisdom, he remained candid about everything from the 1619 Mayflower arrival to Buffalo Soldier pride.  Images of black bodies lined like sardines beneath a slave ship’s belly were displayed along with the dismay of Dr. Selma Burke’s original mold being used to create Teddy Roosevelt’s likeness on the American dime. The African American sculptor was never given credit. Throughout, Kinsey remained unapologetic in his posture that the African American presence in history is not one of invisibility.

Among the engaged dreamers was 15-year-old Dwight James of Jacksonville, Florida who expressed genuine excitement: “I loved when he said Christopher Columbus didn’t discover America. The Indians found America. America has been re-owned,” said James, who dreams of becoming a writer.

Sharing his sentiments was spoken word artist Husain Abd’Allah from Jamaica, NY. The ninth grade homeschooler is a Schomburg Junior Scholar in African American studies who was intrigued by the gallery, “It was such a wonderful exhibit,” he said. “We got to see how it all came together. They had a lantern where you just turn the handle and it starts giving you an overview of the gallery.”

Most impressive for Abd’Allah was Mrs. Fisher’s Cookbook, the first known cookbook by a Black person. Husein, like many in attandance, had never heard this information prior to The Kinsey Collection.

It was Carmen Smith, Vice President of Creative Development of Walt Disney Imageering whose unwavering vision lead to the Kinsey-Disney partnership. She learned about the Collection from Bob Billingslea, former Vice President of Corporate Urban Affairs and Minority Outreach, and eagerly presented the idea to theme park executives. “We saw this as a unique opportunity,” she said. “More than 20 Disney executives were taken to Los Angeles, California to view the entire collection. It was simply magical! There were no hesitations to bring it to the American Gallery.”

The bulk of the Presidential Award-Winning collection remains housed in a converted wine cellar in the Kinsey’s sprawling Pacific Coast home. Of the 400 available pieces, 40 were hand-selected to comprise the Disney exhibit, but every six months they will be rotated until the entire collection has been viewed. To preserve the integrity and protect from light and moisture damage, some items in the exhibit are facsimiles.

Innovative Disney “Imagineers” teamed to create a gallery experience consistent with attractions throughout the resort’s multiple theme parts. Their daunting task was to build an interactive exhibit that brings African American history to life. Anthony Sparks, M.A. served as the writer/consultant for the project. For more than four months, the University of Southern California scholar and former stage actor (“Stomp”) worked to perfect the exhibit. “The big question was how to make a gallery kid-friendly?” he explained. “My goals were simple: appeal to families, all ages, and create something that worked on many levels.”

The project further involved condensing vast material to tell a cohesive story that was not all inclusive but gave a sense of the African American experience and five tenets of The Kinsey Collection: Hope, Belief, Courage, Heritage, and Imagination. Lanterns, symbolic of the freedom path, were given narrative voice by Academy Award winning actress Whoopi Goldberg. Additional A-list celebrities lending their sound were Chaundra Wilson and James Pickens, Jr. (Grey’s Anatomy), Kerry Washington (Scandal), ABC News Anchor Diane Sawyer, and others.

For Kinsey and wife Shirley, the realization of their cultural inheritance is an overwhelming achievement and accomplishment. “It now has a voice, a name, a personality,” offered Kinsey.

The Kinsey Family serves as a formidable example of African American resilience and strength. The Florida A&M University alums met during the civil rights movement and remain married 40 years later.  Both are Xerox Corporation retirees who mastered the  saving money in their early lives together. The dividends have allowed them to travel more than 91 countries and help raise more than $22 million dollars to support HBCU’s. Their son Khalil currently serves as general manager of operations for The Kinsey Collection. While in grade-school, he exhibited an inquisitive nature regarding his family history. Both parents eagerly addressed his cultural thirst. The rest is Kinsey history.

Penny Dickerson is a Florida-based independent journalist. She is a frequent contributor to the Florida Courier, Florida Times-Union and other regional and national publications. Her work can be viewed at pennydickersonwrites.com.

 

 

 

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Meatless March

Let’s get the important questions out of the way first: “Who thought of this?”  Whose big idea was it to proclaim the month of March as a “meatless” countdown of tofu-indused stress and a fruit and grain marathon?  I love all fruits and most grains as well, but I am not one to adhere to dictations and orders. (I am a work in progress).

Don’t get me wrong, I’m doing it because I am calendar-obedient. I am obedient in other ways, but other than abiding by the tenets of “Oprah,” I rely on the calendar months to remind me when it’s time to honor this cause or that versus simply watching the days of the week go by in each month and then claim with glee: TGIF! (Donna Summer left us with a real gem.)

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I can give up anything for 31 days. It’s been done before. While living in Jersey, (yes, New Jersey. There is only one), I endeavored the organic diet-thing and did so with much success. I’m not going to discuss the impetus for the change because it just seems to make me a martyr for cancer and I’m not. I am a strong-survivor, but I would be a deceitful blogger if I allowed readers to believe that diet alone cures it all. It does not, so don’t believe the hype. Diet is essential. Diet helps. But diet alone simply gives you mental peace and an intestinal tract that is happy. And who doesn’t want a happy intestinal tract?

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Me and meat? Us been bedfellows for years since I was a mere, fried chicken eating tot to an adult, collegiate-chick who craved the smoked ribs my mother MASTERED on her front patio grill. NO ONE can smoke a rib like my mother. Unfortunately, no one can put heat to any section of a slaughtered pig’s carcass or a cow’s butt like my mother either. I grew up doing the same, and until I really needed to change, I didn’t.

I am a great cook. I enjoy cooking and own cookbooks and aprons. (Real cooks have aprons – plural). I celebrate a palette that has tasted delicacies from most cultures, but as an adult, my palette has changed. I am aware that being carnivorous means partaking of the carcass of an animal which leads to most carcinomas. OK Class: the three words closest in relation are: carnivorous, carcass, and carcinoma.

Living life as a carnivorous human (meat eater) who worships at the altar of a carcass’ flesh (animal tissue and meat) will ultimately lead you to suffer from a debilitating carcinoma (disease classified as cancer).

These days, I tend to be “grossed-out” by grease and feel immense guilt after a good plate of curried goat. I will, however, declare war over some good jerk chicken. (yes, I am blogging out of boredom).JamaicanJerkChickenText-WEB1

What really sent me to the keys and got me ta-tap-tap tapping away is the fact that I needed a mental break from the rigors of my life. What may they be? Hmmmmm. In no particular order, they are: the blessings of writing (Thank you Jesus, Mary, and Martha); an upcoming week that is destined to be exciting and hopefully destined; my precocious granddaughter “Journey Nicole” who requires or demands nothing in particular of me, she’s just worthy of mention because she’s so friggin’ cute, and the new guy. Yes, the new guy. I am some-kind-of-way meatless in March and mood-altererd over a new guy in Miami. I am over the moon. (Maybe:-)

Anyway, when I am stressed, I do one of two things: I write or I cook. Sometimes I read, but that would be four things and not three. Prior to hitting the “keys,” I prepared black bean salsa with mango and parsley for me and my daughter. Actually, I made it for me, but she devoured it.

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It’s good stuff. Nutritious, delicious, colorful, textured with wonderful flavor profiles. Most important, it’s meatless. Why? Because it’s March (pay attention).

Last week, actually Friday when March madness began, I kicked off the meatless festival with a beautiful breakfast. Actually, my first meal of the day is rarely meat-complemented because I am an oatmeal connoisseur and additionally love yogurt. Unfortunately, I also adore bacon. Yup. You heard me right. Bacon. I love the smell, the idea, the slender appearance, the salt-induced orgasm. Oh baby! Bacon really does make everything better, but it is sho’ ‘nuf meat. Even Turkey bacon, which I both have in the fridge and enjoy, but, “Wow.” C’mon March. No meat? Really? If this is followed by “Agnostic April,” I’m out!

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The photo above is Friday’s breakfast. Two eggs, sunny-side my-way and sitting pretty on a bed of diced red potatoes cooked with yellow pepper and scallion. Yes, I take pictures of my food. Don’t you? No? Well, I do. How else do you think I keep this website going?

So, the thing about going meatless, is not that you miss the meat, you will, but what you’re really missing is “texture.”  Meat is generally the most textured and tough, tongue-tantalizer in our meals. In the absence of meat, we feel like we’re indulging in a slippery and empty digestion of food that leaves us saying, “Gee, I’m still hungry. You still hungry? I”m STILL hungry.”  In addition to needing to replace the protein you’ll miss from meat, rack up on foods that are loaded in texture. meatless-meal-001Kelsey (my daughter) enjoyed her black bean salsa with tortilla chips and the red beans and rice I prepared. I feel full, and I felt the same way after Friday’s breakfast. How many more days to go? I think there’s something about NOT ingesting something you’re used to that makes you want it MORE. (Someone reading this is going all “blah-blah-blah” over rice and potatoes being starches, but ya know what? Relax ~ Yes, they are a starch, but they are not meat!)

The entire city of Jacksonville smells like fried chicken, and I am not exaggerating. I am spending day three into Meatless March craving fried chicken. How residential-fair is that? Popeyes, Church’s Chicken, Kentucky Fried Chicken, Jimmy’s Buttermilk Chicken, Hardees Fried Chicken. We are a southern city of grease saturated fowl. We can’t help it though; It’s law. I actually “jacked’ that from another one of my own blogs: “frying food in the south is practically law.”  And who wants to be an outlaw? Not even a freed slave in an Academy Award winning movie. Sometimes, I wonder if fried chicken emerged before or post-civil war? I don’t dwell on it, but it does occasionally cross my mind.

Okay, so the other M’s in my life are calling: midnight, morning, Monday, murder (Part V of Jimmy Jackson), preparing to see Mickey Mouse, Miami and a man named “Michael.”  I think I have a better idea about Meatless March: MODERATION. (I totally cheated at the breakfast buffet this morning with a strip of bacon, but I swear, I double-dog SWEAR, I also ordered a made-to-order veggie omelette).

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M-O-D-E-R-A-T-I-O-N

Absolutes have never been my strong suit.

Penny Dickerson 2013

Part I – “The Life & Death of Jimmy Jackson”

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THE LIFE & DEATH OF JIMMY JACKSON

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December 20, 2012  

This is the first in a series of stories framing the life of James Roland Jackson III, known as ‘Jimmy’ to his family.

BY PENNY DICKERSON
SPECIAL TO THE FLORIDA COURIER

Last week, America and much of the world was transfixed by tragedy. The basic facts are now known worldwide.

A lone gunman, a troubled young man with a mind for destruction, killed his mother with her own gun. Then he turned the idyllic Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn., into a scene of horrific chaos and carnage before killing himself.

Twenty children and six adults, including the school’s principal, were killed in the worst shooting – to date – at a primary school in U.S. history.

Thousands of murders
An unemotional statistical review indicates that the 27 murders were drops in the proverbial gallons of blood that are shed daily as a consequence of gun violence in America.

According to the University of Chicago Crime Lab and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, America averages 87 gun deaths a day, with an average of 183 people injured a day.

In Chicago alone, more than 4,000 youth ages 21 or younger have been shot in the last four years.

In Jacksonville – long known as the murder capital of Florida, and “ground zero” for this Florida Courier series  – crime is down, as it is all over the state. Still, Jacksonville has maintained the dubious distinction of having the highest homicide rate of all of Florida’s largest counties for 11 of the last 12 years, according to state statistics.

There were 81 murders in Duval County in 2010. There were 76 murders in Duval County in 2011.

And as we close in on the end of the year 2012, there have been 99 homicides, according to a database maintained by the Florida Times-Union newspaper.

‘Homicide’ v. ‘murder’
(According to the database, “a ‘homicide’ is one person killing another person, no matter the reason. A person killing another is called a ‘murder’ when it is deemed a crime. There are many gradations of murder, but they generally fall into premeditated murder, felony murder during the commission of a crime and manslaughter. Homicides would include justifiable, excusable or accidental killings, and are not deemed a crime.”)

Of the 99 Duval County homicides currently listed in the newspaper’s “First Coast Homicide” database, 71 involved deadly shootings. Fifty-six of the 71 shooting victims were Black.

Forty-six of the 56 Black homicide victims were males.

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One of the 46 Black men killed by gun violence in Jacksonville this year was James Roland Jackson III, known as “Jimmy” to his family and “Exclusively J” to those in Florida’s rap game.

He was 26 when he was shot four times at the Silver Fox, a Jacksonville-area strip club on June 2 at approximately 4 a.m. He died 10 days later at Shands Hospital Jacksonville.

Jimmy, a young father who attended Florida A&M University and had just started a new job, largely became a case number to everyone but his family and a few close friends. That’s the fate of so many young Black men who are killed by sudden gun violence in American cities, large and small.

He became Incident No. 408400 at the Jacksonville Sheriff’s Office.

He was Case No. 120400973 in the Office of the Medical Examiner, District 4, which performed an autopsy on his dead body.

After his homegoing service in Orlando and subsequent burial in Apopka, he became State File No. 2012225476 on his death certificate.

No media coverage
In February, 17-year-old Trayvon Martin, an unarmed Black teen who was visiting his father, was shot dead by a White man in Sanford.  On the day after Thanksgiving, 17-year-old Jordan Davis, an unarmed Black teen who was a passenger sitting in a parked vehicle, was shot to death by a White man in Jacksonville.

Both shootings ignited fury over the senseless deaths of two young Black men whose deaths came at the hands of White men who claimed to be “standing their ground” under Florida law.

Jackson’s death was different. He was at a strip club, not at an elementary school or at his father’s home or at a gas station blasting music with friends in a vehicle. He was a grown man with a child of his own, not an elementary school student or a teenager. And witnesses say Jackson’s killer or killers were Black.

No Jacksonville-area media reported on the shooting or Jackson’s unexpected and violent death.

Two months later, however, a broadcast news affiliate did spotlight the local shooting of a dog during an August 20 local news segment.

What to expect
In a multiple story series, Florida Courier readers will learn more about James Roland Jackson III’s life: his birth, his childhood, his education, his accomplishments, his aspirations.

The series also will delve into his hospital stay and subsequent death. Jackson remained in critical condition at Shands Jacksonville for 10 days without medical insurance.

His funeral challenged his family’s finances and an ongoing murder investigation has stalled.

Readers will get to know how the murder emotionally devastated his surviving family members as they attempt to navigate the disjointed, informal support system for families of murder victims.

The series also will take a hard look at the Silver Fox nightclub, the site of multiple killings. There will be interviews with Christopher Chestnut, the Jackson family attorney who is suing the club and who serves as the family’s legal advocate; and with Detective Bobbie Bowers – the homicide investigator charged with bringing Jimmy’s killers to justice.

The series will conclude by examining the circumstances surrounding the shooting deaths of some of the 33 African-Americans who were shot to death – just in Jacksonville – since Jimmy’s murder on June 12.

Next in the series: Part 1: Who was Jimmy Jackson?

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 NAMES OF THOSE KILLED

On Dec. 16, President Obama spoke of an interfaith prayer vigil for the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary shooting. He read slowly the first names of each of the 20 children who were shot dead.

In Jacksonville and other places around the country, there are very few public acknowledgements other than funerals and a few media reports of the existence of murder victims as identifiable human beings.

Here are the names of the 33 African-Americans in Duval County who were killed from June 2, the day James Roland Jackson III was shot, until Dec. 18, the day this article was prepared.

Jimmy Jackson:  July 2, 1985 – June 13, 2012

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TRACI       ENOCH      DEMETRES      MARVETTE      LAWRENCE    TIMMIE  

JULIUS   ROSHAWN   DOUGLAS   ANGELITA   ANTONIO   RAFEAL   MARQUITA

  RAKEEM   LARRY   RICHARD   EDWARD    RAYFIELD   RANOD   MICHAEL  

CHRISTOPHER   ANTONYO   GEORGE   PHILLIPE   LANCE   CHRISTOPHER

  STEPHEN  MICHAEL   VERLON   ROLISHA   JORDAN   TELIA   RUSSELL   

candle in hands

Penny Dickerson 2013